And so the story goes..
mystery?

I am sitting here in a battle with my cellular device.. we have probably all received a message of this nature and pondered a response, “I know you read my message, so answer me” or something along those lines. How do you know I read it? Oh wait because we all check our phones at least once every 10 mins. that may even be giving some of us some too much credit I know people that carry theirs all day long and answer every call or message with punctuality.

We all sit and wonder where life’s mystery has gone, which is kind of funny when you think about it. I don’t need to sit down and talk to someone when I have been in constant contact with them all day and know everything from what they ate for breakfast to what colour of pj’s they are wearing to bed.  

As for the relationships, why would prince charming have to come and try the shoe on me when I can just text him my shoe size? Maybe we have forgotten that life is more exciting when some mystery is left in it. 

I can’t say I have a solution because if we just stop answering every question that is text to us we will likely end up pretty lonely, as everyone knows you have read their message… Just a thought for the day :-) 

#travel #startliving #courage

#travel #startliving #courage


The best way to find where you’re suppose to be, is go someplace you aren’t. Get lost. Travel.

The best way to find where you’re suppose to be, is go someplace you aren’t. Get lost. Travel.

true story

true story

just a thought…

Today I went to get my nails done, and while sitting listening to my nail girl go on about her usual bashing of others she suddenly stopped. She started telling me about her plans to go for a $10,000 boob job. Now my first thought obviously was ” what the hell? my nail tech can afford this, obviously I am in the wrong line of work!” but in all seriousness I really think my tech, still living at home with her parents, is willing to actually finance boobs! I suddenly started to feel sorry for her and completely ignored everything she went on to say about her upcoming procedure. Instead I started wondering are we, females, all so dedicated to ‘catching’ a member of the opposite sex that we are willing to put ourselves in debt over an extra cup size?! in a world where adding more material to your clothing is considered weight gain we want to go ahead and add an extra size to a certain region of the body to ensure we will never have to be independent? 

Now having said all of that I can appreciate wanting to change something about yourself that you don’t like about yourself but maybe that should happen when you have actually saved the money to do so, and for that reason alone.. not in hopes of catching a ‘fish’.

I have asked many guys before where they sit on the boob job front and surprisingly the numbers are in favour of real! and not necessarily large! most men will tell you that it is all great to have a girl with big boobs but that fake is not really that big of a seller when it comes to settling down with a girl and also that it is far more attractive when a girl is natural and comfortable with her body being so .. I have a high respect for that. I am by no means saying that it is trashy to get your boobs done or that you cant get married to a girl that does! I in fact have considered a breast  enhancement for quite some time.. I however have intentions of using it to entice any member the opposite sex, and certainly am not going to put myself in debt over it. 

My nail tech also has been in a battle with her weight for as long as I can remember , something to ponder in her situation as well .. bigger boobs not only means a bigger bra but also bigger shirts ? Speaking from a female perspective I know may women that will tell you if they go shopping and something doesn’t fit them in the same size they own or typically wear, they simply will not buy it ( unless they have to go down a size) they are simply not willing to go up a size! 

So here I sit and wonder… where does it stop? how far are we willing to go to fill the seat next to us at the movies, to find someone to fight over the remote with, to obtain the ultimate dream of having someone to mentally flip off on the daily?